Our SEXUAL experience is directly related to the conception we have of our own Sexuality.
Ask yourself these questions:
Do I feel completely and utterly satisfied with my partner when it comes to sex? How much of it has to do with my partner? How much of it has to do with me?
The power-driven world that we have lived in, full of mind-controlling systems of belief, has influenced our psyche, sexuality and morals beyond measure. We have lost contact with our nature, bodies, heart and intuition — that instinctual inner voice that speaks to us always with the truth, about everything.
It tells us the truth about the experiences we choose to live, the relationships we choose to have, what we like and dislike in bed, and all about the men (or women) we choose be in bed with!
As women, we have wombs. If we were to listen more carefully to what our sacred Black Whole (pun intended) communicates to us, we would be reminded that it is our most precious sanctuary; its function is the centre of Creation, and it makes everything (especially men) spin. Our sacral chakra, where the womb is situated, is by far our most creative power source, whether we use its power to create other human life, or focus it on other creative processes.
If we aren’t aware of this power, if we don’t listen to what our body is telling us, our creative power can easily be misused, depreciated or ignored, transforming itself into destructive and negative energies, emotions, feelings and experiences.
With our sexuality, we experience the whole world through another person. There is a deeply intuitive exchange of information, which cannot be expressed verbally. Glimpses of the great mystery slowly unravel as the two beings dance their way to unification.
Sex is the highest form of love that one can experience on a physical level. It opens up different energy centres in one’s being and makes one vulnerable to his fellow human beings. It forces one to confront the aloneness of reality, and yet gives the opportunity to feel connected to it at the same time. It creates some of the most difficult life problems to work through because it is the last thing an individual must master before becoming truly a spiritual being and reaching human fulfilment.
Our sexuality is the core of our essence as physical human beings, and is one of the most direct paths towards the great mystery of life.
The question isn’t if we abstain or overindulge in it; but rather if we understand ourselves or not through our own sexuality. This process of inner recognition will reflect through every single sexual experience that we encounter. Whether we are conscious of it or not, whether we enjoy it or despise it, whether we choose it, or it happens “to” us.
There are many thought patterns intrinsically attached to our sexuality that originated many generations ago, in the darkest course of the history of our sexuality. Ideologies that demonized, suppressed, controlled and immoralized our sensual expression, dictating the creative force of humanity, for economic reasons and, of course, power. Some of the agencies that handled these are the church, pedagogy, psychiatry. These ideologies have been kept alive throughout time, by people believing in them without question. We are still, continually submitting to these obsolete and limiting beliefs until we make a conscious decision of changing. Today we can make this conscious decision of changing. We are ready to discover who it is that we are, and to be that woman to her fullest potential.
We can create the sexuality that we want for ourselves. We can enjoy it. Our love-making can extend to several hours, having multiple super-intense orgasms, both men and women. We can fulfill our most erotic and exotic desires, fantasies, dreams and passions. We can experience a whole new realm of existence where bliss is the air we breathe and light is the colour we see. A spiritual experience, where man and woman meet and become god and goddess, in one.
Such a sexuality is possible for all of us. We just have to connect with our divine selves, our beautiful bodies, our internal processes, our judgment-free desires and our self-love.
By giving ourselves the love and completion within, we are able to face the world as a whole woman. Not needing anyone, not giving in and not compromising any part of our integrity. Rather, being complete and self-confident, we have all the love we need within us, and therefore, are able to share that love with someone else. Only in this manner are we going to manifest our equal, someone who also loves himself, and is therefore able to love us too. Someone who is able to give us pleasure, satisfaction, radiance, and prime love.
We are perfect, beautiful and sexual beings. This workshop assists us in coming to terms with our own desires and motivates us to start living our sexuality in the loving, responsible and liberating way that makes us whole. Healing our sexuality will re-empower us to be the CREATOR of our own life, love and eroticism, living each of these to the fullest; giving us pleasure, power and self-realization as the gods and goddesses that we are.
Sacred Sexuality, Sensuality, Eroticism, Touch and Pleasure and are all parts of our True Essential Self…. LOVE